Silence the Inner Critic— Understanding the Forms of Self-Sabotage and How to Overcome it
September 22, 2024
Discover the Art of Intentional Spending with Franchelle Caesar
Being a “spender” is often seen as a negative trait, but the truth is, that spenders possess a unique financial superpower. While society may deem spending as a liability, in reality, it plays a vital role in keeping the economy thriving. Therefore, it’s time to redefine the narrative and embrace the strengths that come with being a proud spender.
Franchelle Caesar is a Financial Coach for Spenders. After struggling with her own spending habits, she created a solution and now helps others do the same, guiding them to wield their spending prowess as a strength rather than a weakness.
In this conversation, Daniel and Franchelle share powerful insights on the misconceptions about being a “spender”, the importance of being intentional in spending and tracking finances, the need to align spending with personal values, tips on gamifying financial habits and creating enjoyable routines, the different types of toxic spending patterns and how to overcome financial sabotage, mindset shifts for abundance, plus much more.
“Spending is your superpower… You're not doing money wrong, you do money differently. The sooner that you're able to own it and be proud of it, the sooner you can wield it like a superpower instead of being all over the place because you're judging yourself with it.” —Franchelle Caesar
Episode Highlights
- 03:14 Who is a “Spender”
- 09:21 Lifestyle Creep
- 15:53 Gamify Your Spending Behavior
- 22:52 Toxic Spending Patterns: Winner, Seeker, Runner, and Protector
- 35:06 Go Where the Growth Is
- 40:28 Have Them Come
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Connect with Franchelle:
Franchelle Caesar is the founder of The Financial School for Spenders, an online program that teaches women how to save money without budgeting or changing their spending habits.
She is on a mission to transform the way Spenders think about money, helping them achieve financial freedom without guilt or shame.
With a vision that every Spender can trust themselves with money and build wealth on their terms, Fran has created a unique program that combines life coaching and financial coaching.
Side note: Fran is a medical doctor who retired at age 41, after eliminating over $600,000 worth of debt. She is a champion for women who want to take control of their finances while enjoying the freedom to spend as they choose.
Quotes:
03:31 “Spending is your superpower… You’re not doing money wrong, you do money differently. The sooner that you’re able to own it and be proud of it, the sooner you can wield it like a superpower instead of being all over the place because you’re judging yourself with it.” —Franchelle Caesar
07:01 “When you have a motivation, a reason to look at your money, then you will start to manage it very intentionally.” —Franchelle Caesar
08:58 “Everybody hears the word abundance and increase, but it’s one thing to hear it, but it’s another thing to live it.” —Daniel Gomez
13:15 “You can give yourself a raise by just deciding what’s important to you.” —Franchelle Caesar
15:16 “It’s okay to have nice things as long as nice things don’t have you, you’re buying it for the right reasons, and you can afford it.” —Daniel Gomez
21:04 “Once you get to the point where you start to question everything, it’ll change your whole life.” —Franchelle Caesar
22:32 “When you raise your lid of finances, bigger opportunities that wouldn’t come your way are coming your way. But, you have to find the balance because if not, you’re stuck on the overspending aspect of it.” —Daniel Gomez
26:09 “You end up overspending because you don’t ever feel like you have enough; you don’t ever feel like you ARE enough.” —Franchelle Caesar
30:28 “ Your story may be different, but your pattern gives a clue.” —Franchelle Caesar
34:42 “If you’re in an environment where you feel like the growth mindset is not there, where people are not striving to be better, where people are not pushing you to be better, you’re in the wrong environment.” —Franchelle Caesar
36:04 “You got to be a little bit crazy because you’re going against the odds; you’re going against the normal of people. You got to not care what anybody says.” —Daniel Gomez
37:26 “Just because you picked a career when you were in your teenage years doesn’t mean that you have to stick with that through your whole life. You’re not trapped in a decision you made 20 years ago. You just have to be brave enough to defend it.” —Franchelle Caesar
38:53 “Gratitude is the most powerful place to be.” —Franchelle Caesar
43:42 “Stop trying to do God’s business.” —Franchelle Caesar
